IS HE A CLOSET GAY OR IS JUST AB ADVENTUROUS FELLOW? OUR NEW SUNDAY SUNDAY Q & A!!

Just imagine that you have a boyfriend, man-friend, husband, contract boyfriend, pre-paying Maga/ATM who you are totally into, who goes the mile or more for you all the time or most often, whenever you are in need of any form of assistance, in whatever ramifications he is there for you.

That kind of person, that you are so into who you cannot deny just about anything and after you both are so in sync and dotes madly on each other endlessly and have good sexual energy together, you both most often climbs to the "mountain of satisfaction", back to the "valley of fun and enjoyment" together. The "game of lock and key" is what both of you always look forward to very very often as it is always "satisfyingly gratifying", so much so that you always go to cloud 9 and back with much aplomb! He seems to know the key to your g-spot and knows how to stir the waters of your "Bermuda triangle", that "sacred place of pleasure", that "pleasurable watering hole" endlessly and expertly.

You are as giving as much as he is, but then you find out over time, that as much as he loves to travel round your "haven of pleasure" with gusto, so also he also loves to dig through your other canal which is used for waste with equal vigor! You had allowed it a point, because you thought why not, all parts of the body should be explored, including there too at least once or twice! But alas! You now notice he wants more from there always always!

Infact, you have noticed that he seems to be at the height of his pleasure when he is digging that particular spot!

Is he by any chance a "closet gay"? Is he still just operating under the cover and might move totally to that side of the divide soon? Or is he just having fun and just taking both holes with equal vigor and equality? Or is he operating under the principle of a hole, is a hole no matter the location! Someone recently said though that, once you pop that place, it just means that you can do it for any gender? The person's argument is that, it is the one place that is like the same for both a man and a woman!

We have heard though of a suave, very dapper personage of influence in the current get go, whose one of his numerous girlfriends, is wondering why he always wants that from her!

Though she doesn't necessarily mind that much, as she is getting sorted out fantastically, but she's also wondering if it's a sign of other things?

What says you all?  

WHERE ARE THE A-BAR CREW NOW? YUSUF, MARSHALL & OSA. THE TRIO THAT KEPT THE A-CLASS TOGETHER FOR 16 LONG YEARS!

Toyin Subair, Osa Ademota, Sheni & Marshall

Marshall Onwuameze

We are feeling somewhat nostalgic today. Years back "Atlantic Bar" better known as "A-Bar" for short was the quintessential go to place by the happening crowd.

It was the "watering hole" of the young, rich and upwardly mobile then, famous and the not too famous ones, both male and female at that use to gather at the spot daily.

If you wanted to know what was happening in town, you wanted to meet with those considered then as the "it-crowd", the young movers and shakers of the society, those who you see featured on the pages of glossy magazines and tabloids etc this was the place. Many of the same people who are now top brasses in their various companies and establishments. It was that time before the internet became super popular and a major hit, the time before news would flash online, real time.

Some would slowly exhale now and exclaim that, that was the good ole days. It was before the days of them "Yahoo boys" packing out every joint and "blatantly showing off their loot" without a care in the world and without minding being tagged, looking rag-tag and somehow unkempt even with all the money at their disposal. The fun days of yore seem totally gone. A-Bar was some type of class separator then! Until her demise! Sadly.b

Yusuf Hamman, Marshall Onwuameze and Osa Ademota at that time seemingly got it right with that A-class joint, twas like all the elements came together properly and it really worked for them. Apart from having the right crowd always in place then, what was also majorly great about the hotspot that opened in the year 1996 and was shut down in 2012 (16 good years of fun galore) was their food and the ambience. The food then was the bomb! Especially their take on the "concoction rice" a common delight. which tasted super scrumptious and was out of the world.

Where are these trio now who all should be in their early 50s at most now?