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Saturday, January 13, 2018

VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION TO ASK- ARE "HEADS" ALLOWED IN A MARRIAGE? IF SO IS WHATEVER THATS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE ALSO GOOD FOR THE GANDER?



We think maybe we are gradually becoming some sort of "Agony Aunt" this days, with the kind of things we get sometime, that we are asked and begged to publish or post. Imagine the above and after looking very well at it, we have posted the request below, the young lady is especially waiting for you good people to respond and help out.

I have been married now for about 2 and half years, it's been fun galore all of the 2 and half years, some sort of rollercoaster of emotions. My husband is loving, caring, very nice, quite responsible and a good dad to our only daughter.

I am a young, beautiful, curvaceous, slightly tall and very sexually active lady, who loves my husband to a fault. We enjoy a good relationship on all counts, especially a very healthy s#x life, I love the game I wouldn't lie and my husband serves me well, I wouldn't really complain, but with a little snag though, I really, very much so at that enjoy give heads and enjoy getting it in return too, in fact, I had become quite very good at it before getting married, only for me to get married now and nothing of the sort at all now!

I love it when good quality time is given to munching my carpet before the real deal itself is now activated. Getting my oyster well attended to allows my juice to flow and I then become a potty to be shaped anyhow the potter wants. I always always look forward to it!

I forgot to add that my husband is a hunk of a dude who always gets a lot of female attention even when we go out together. He is very good in other aspect of the game only that what I love to high heavens- a good bout if head he doesn't give at all, he has never even attempted it. What's going on? Is it a bad thing to give or love getting a head? Is it something that's is frowned upon in a marriage in this parts? Can I demand for it without making it an issue? Are the different religions against it? Is the "head"  itself not a part of show of love for one you love and trust?

I want to ask my husband but I don't want to look like a wanton or something else.

Now that you have read what was sent to us, we would want to ask our own question, is it against any of our religions to give and take heads? On a normal scale is there something particularly bad or disgusting about it? 

74 comments:

Anonymous said...

After 1 week's absence? We your loyal fans have been waiting for hot tea, instead you went into your dustbin to bring out this empty pure water sachet,,, that some few drops still remain inside for us your readers to drink as tea,,? Aloba why now?

Anonymous said...

don't mind Aloba what is this now??? abeg shift with this lame post

Anonymous said...

My sister I focking Taya oooo

Anonymous said...

Aloba, tell us NOW. What is the problem? Is it Time, Data, No ☕️ tea that is your problem? We need to fix it
You can’t keep going MIA

Palesa said...

I enjoy a good head! Receiving and giving is very pleasurable to me🀀. Not withstanding, you have to be comfortable with your partner to enjoy it. I personally don’t see anything wrong with it.

Anonymous said...

@anonymous said u are cray lolz but aloba is true oo after a week absence na wetin u carry come be this.
Madam you don't have a problem abeg so na to receive head be your problem,may God not allow you see problem in your marriage oo.well,talk to your husband about it.there is nothing to be scared or ashamed of.he is supposed to be ur bestie.

BEE

Anonymous said...

@anonymous said u are cray lolz but aloba is true oo after a week absence na wetin u carry come be this.
Madam you don't have a problem abeg so na to receive head be your problem,may God not allow you see problem in your marriage oo.well,talk to your husband about it.there is nothing to be scared or ashamed of.he is supposed to be ur bestie.

BEE

Anonymous said...

Same here! In this new year for that matter! * Deep sign!

Anonymous said...

Madam! Sorry to burst your bubble but your hulk husband is probably doing it with someone else! He doesn't want to do it with you so that you won't think he's into that! I'm a guy so I know a bit ok!

Anonymous said...

Ladies! If your boyfriend suggests oral sex! Decline please! I'm not old fashioned but there are lots of virus and bacteria found in those areas which should never come in contact with your mouth or eyes!

Anonymous said...

Madam, have a talk with your hubby! It's not that complex! He is your husband, lover and friend so it should be easy! Abi! When he's not your father, so don't fret! Talk to your husband!. Aloba! Please post juicy gist here! This is not Hints magazine!

Anonymous said...

I can tell from the post the woman is well "Enlightened" in the bedroom Dept. Your hulk hubby is equally enlightened! Ask him about your sex cravings and get back to us mbok! This is not a pressing topic! Until someone gets halitosis, then una go hear word! Rubbish! Oral sex purge you there! You better go to church!

Anonymous said...

Before oral sex came into play, wasn't sex enjoyed and appreciated in the old fashioned and normal way! Madam, hope you be willing and ready for BJ.

Anonymous said...

Please ladies! I mean the good and clean ladies! Don't ever kiss any big boy on the island anymore! From this anonymous post, she couldn't believe that the big boy could lick her! So be careful ladies! *Pukes!

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Anonymous are back!!!!!! Yayyyyy! 😁😁😁😁😁😁

Anonymous said...

Simple! Use band-aid to seal the butt hole and lick away! 😏

Fan said...

Buhahahaha! Mind reader!!

Palesa said...

Hope he sha gave you enough money for when his wife finds out and takes your name to okija shrine.

Mama Borngirl said...

I've good Nigerdelta guys in UK who need pretty matured dates. Do you care? Not joking though...

Mama Borngirl said...

Aloba, you think you can vanish and then reappear with fxxk story to catch our attention. Don't start your vanishing without apology attitude this year, infact don't vanish at all.

Anonymous said...

@Mama Borngirl I am interested ma ☺️

Fii

Anonymous said...

@Mama Borngirl I am very much interested ☺️

Fii

Medussa said...

Maybe aloba should organise a meet up for singles.

Medussa said...

Mama Born girl I am interested ooo. Please hook he up.

Nigerdeltan said...

Not the anon that is lonely. MBG, I care for one pls and I'm from Nigerdelta as well. I'm divorced caused by DV and ready to mingle. Which Nigerdelta tribe are they?

Anonymous said...

Noooooo! This is not an escort site! Let's keep it strictly for serving tea i beg! Before chicks start getting pregnant here oo!

Anonymous said...

Supported!

Mama Borngirl said...

Nothing bad in Aloba starting a singles thread. Not everytime tea serving, let him touch lives more positively.

Anon needs to follow up hence the ID. Lol

My guys are no longer fuck boys, they need serious relationships. Their tribes Efik, Ibibio, Calabari, Ibani, Isoko, Ijaw.

Anonymous said...

Hints magazine ... shoot me 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

Super girl said...

My ex used to give me head even when I was on my period. The man is now like mumu. Does and gives whatever I need when I do. Couldn’t marry him as he has kids with different women. We won’t talk for 6mths I’ll message him and say I need N1m loan and I get the alert in 10mins. So strange because he is generally a stingy man.

Love and Wealth Charms said...

I think it dirty too in all ramifications.

Love and Wealth Charms said...

Someone mistakenly had sperm enter her eyes while giving head. And her eyes hurt for few days afterwards.

Anonymous said...

Which kojo please?????

Anonymous said...

Please which Kojo?

Anonymous said...

Organise a meet up for singles????? Where??? Hope you know that a lot of BV don't reside in Nigeria! There are BV in Europe, North America, South America , Asia and even on the moon! So how is it possible? Please kill that idea and leave it on serving us good ☕!

Anonymous said...

You will be amazed that some guys get turned on by the smell of the butt hole! Yep! It's called,'Fetish! Without the smell, no action! When I mean smell, not rotten fish smell but natural butt hole smell! *Pukes! πŸ˜·πŸ˜·πŸ˜·πŸ’€πŸ‘»

Anonymous said...

Anon on chewing vulva! If you can chew a lady's vulva, then her nipples are gone! You now use same mouth to kiss your other girlfriends! Why won't there be high rate of STD and STI! Eh?

Anonymous said...

😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁! Toxic sperm! She should wear glasses next time!

Anonymous said...

Eyes hurt for few days????? Imagine what the dirty sperm will do to her throat and body!*Pukes! Halitosis loading!

Anonymous said...

Anon! Here,πŸ”«πŸ”«

ag said...

Hello ma'am, I'm interested. Pretty, decent, good company and hardworking. I'm from Delta, Isoko.
How can I reach you?

Anonymous said...

BV on the moon????? 😁😁😁😁😁😁 These anonymous play too much.

Anonymous said...

I have to go under anonymous here! Kojo and I had a little thing before he got married and I've to admit that he does have a sweet dick! Big, long, well circumcised! And he can make love ! Great foreplay! Miss him when it snows here! Never enjoyed love making till we met! He's not a selfish lover!

Anonymous said...

You let a guy head you while bleeding! Nasty! Real nasty! Why??? What sort of girl are you?? My God! You're not a clean person at all!

Anonymous said...

Most times I'm always tucked in my duvet when I'm on my period! Sex is the last thing on my mind! Just want to be left alone with my hot tea and painkillers!

Anonymous said...

Not Isoko oh, their men are evil!!!!!

Mama Borngirl said...

Evil is a strong word. You shouldn't generalise based on few experiences.

Aproko said...

I can imagine how awkward his dick will be btw his thin legs like that of kwashiokor. The way his mouth and eyes looks on his face. Iyanma, abasha-pukes.

Inner caucus...hmmmm

And you anon you better go test for that big V.

Anonymous said...

MBG your love for Obaro is too much, am suspecting something else between you and him 😁😁😁😁

Anonymous said...

Mama BG is it true what anon 11:33 is saying. Make una confess so we go stop dey mess your lover boy as per you be our MM landlady 😁😁😁😁

Cos of Obaro's comments here, he's mellowed down. Up MM blog.

Mr Aloba pls start a singles thread. Let God use you to make some of us married this year.

Anonymous said...

MBG! Kojo was passionate and foreplay was tight! He made mad love to me! I don't know who is obaro! I don't need to lie besides , I'm not Nigerian! Anon! Check for what????? I have no virus! I'm healthy and there's nothing wrong with me!

Anonymous said...

So Mama borngirl! These stupid boys have sex tapes? Hmmmmmmm! If it is on their phones, God help them the day they will step into the states and their phones need to be checked, they will know that water can be Hot or Cold! As a guy, I don't get the hype attached to these guys! Rubbish!

Anonymous said...

Wow @ MBG!!!!!! Big fine dick! If you had said ,big dick! Then it's okay but you said, FINE! Wow! I'm starting to believe or think, you guys must've dated or some sort! Wow! Heard that a member of his caucus was introduced to drugs by the caucus and the family is mad as hell! The member is one fine lad! Used to be a ladies man but married now! Also a dad! Responsible too! Disease free!

Anonymous said...

Obaro, mellowed down???????? 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁! The fear of MM blog is the beginning of wisdom! That's good! The mum will be proud! Obaro, the ginger! I wonder where his squad are today!

Mama Borngirl said...

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! Obaro has fine dick, I'm a woman and I can admire fine men and fine dick if I see. Afterall men too admire beauty in women 😁😁😁

But the truth is that I saw the dick in a tape, he wasn't the only one in the tape, but of them all he has finest dick. Just as breast dey dey kampe, dick too dey dey kampe 😁😁😁

I have never dated him nor had sex with him in my life, him or any member of their caucus. I've known them all for at least 27 years and when we were younger and should've done that, my "eyes were too open" saw them as chewing gum boys.

The sex tapes were done with camcorder and transferred to laptops. Got it via email. Just last year was going thru my old email and still saw it there. And NO NO NO I'll not be sending to anyone, I know where to draw the line when it comes to gist!!!

Mama Borngirl said...

For those who want to mingle, when Aloba starts a singles thread will get emails and specs of my guys.

Anonymous said...

What about us!? Ghost anonymous? We also need love me!Abi! Please reach out to us nah! It's lonely here too!

Anonymous said...

😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁@ obaro the ginger! Anonymous on this blog will someone one day!

Anonymous said...

Okay Mami!πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

MBG! I think I know who you're! Hmmmmmmm! So it's you all this while! My God!

Anonymous said...

What year was these sex tapes done? Just curious! I don't need the tapes, just the year, please! I'm not a hacker!

Anonymous said...

Anon 6:57pm! Is it ladi or olaolu? Hmmmmm! These boys are no more boys now! They are men and father's! Please they should live like one! Why drugs? Life is good to them, why do drugs?

Anonymous said...

Mama BornGirl! I want you! No joke! It's you that I want. Since the bikini story which you posted here, I have day dreaming about you! Help a brother out! πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ”«πŸ”«πŸ”«πŸ”«

Anonymous said...

Mama Born Girl! Are you saying that there is a sex tape with Obaro and his squad butt naked, holding their dicks shouting," This is my rifle, this is my dick???? Or all the crew having an O.....? Eh! Mama BornGirl? Because I don't understand! Which year was the tape released? Name the producer, editor, sound manager and director! Please. Thank you,

Anonymous said...

@Mamaborngirl!;I want Olaolu! Saw him at the wedding! Please get me , Olaolu.

Anonymous said...

But these guys are old now! All old and bald! Please, the youth are in Vogue joor! Out with the old, in with the new! The young shall grow, the old shall ......! They got no game joor!

Anonymous said...

We are not interested in the sex tape! The guys are old! They should be in nursing homes by now, collecting pensions! They ran a dirty race!

Mama Borngirl said...

Not the whole crew, just few of them having sex in same room or suite. Few of them still have intact brain and won't do such.

For the one who wants to know the year, are you scared you're there? Don't worry the tape is in safe hands.

Who likes Shola's dick, that one can't fuck to save his life. Like f like s...

Leave Olaolu abeg, you know white women don't condone cheating.

I'm sorry am not available, that bikini stuff happened pre motherhood. My first daughter is married, so imagine my present bikini look. Lol.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous! Please take e-kisses from me! Brutal! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Luv you Mama born girl for keeping it real! Have a drink on me! Please.

Mama Borngirl said...

Cheers 🍷🍷🍷to you all. Will like to take a break from this their fuck/dick stories.

Aloba, aside a singles thread. I'll like a thread on wedding planners and vendors. I'd experience with them last year, most of them are IG good, thrash in real life.

Anonymous said...

@ Mama borngirl! When next you're in the states, holla at your guy, ghost anonymous! I want to take you out! Luv you to bits!

Mama Borngirl said...

Sure dearie. Love you all!